Childhood Anxiety – What All Parents Need to Know


Anxiety. A word that is hardly spoken about, but yet impacts so many of us on a daily basis; including myself. So it was no surprise, when I started noticing Finlee (my 6 year old) getting anxious in different situations at such an early age. Childhood anxiety is real and I feel it’s important for families to be aware of what anxiety looks like in children, when to be concerned about anxiety in children and how you can help your child if they have anxiety.

What is Anxiety?

Anxiety is a normal emotion for children and is an essential part of their childhood development. Anxiety helps children to learn about their world around them by alerting them to threats, protecting them from danger and helping them to reach important goals. Beyond Blue estimate that 1 in 6 Australian children (this is equivalent to 440,000 children in the last 12 months) experience anxiety more intensely in different areas of their life, which then stops them from reaching their full potential and enjoying life to its fullest.

All children will feel anxious from time to time (first day of school, a big exam), but it’s when the anxious feelings don’t subside, are ongoing and exist without any particular reason when anxiety starts to become a problem.

What Causes Anxiety in Children?

There is no one single cause of anxiety, but rather a number of factors that can contribute to anxiety. Researchers have identified 6 key contributing factors that can cause anxiety in children and these include:

  1. Genetics/Family history
  2. Environment
  3. Personality factors
  4. Stressful events
  5. Physical health problems
  6. Other mental health conditions

Types of Anxiety in Children

There are several different types of anxiety that children may experience and it’s important to be mindful that anxiety will look differently for each child. Different types of anxiety can include any of the following:

  • Generalised Anxiety Disorder
  • Panic Disorder
  • Separation Anxiety Disorder
  • Social Anxiety
  • Selective Mutism
  • Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder
  • Post-traumatic Stress Disorder
  • Specific Phobias

When to Be Concerned About Your Child and Their Anxiety

If your child’s anxiety starts to take over and is stopping him/her from doing things they want/like to do, impacting on friendships, school work and on your family, then it’s time to consider arranging an appointment with one or more professionals:

  • Your GP
  • Pediatrician
  • Psychiatrist
  • School Guidance Officer
  • Occupational Therapist

Remember early intervention is key in order to try and reduce the anxiety from impacting on their life now, but also by giving them coping skills and strategies that they can use to minimise long term anxiety in adulthood.

Ways to Support Your Child

As parents we are one of the primary supports our children have and a result we play an important role when working through their childhood anxiety.

There are many different ways you can support your child, but I particularly like the 12 Tips to Reduce Your Child’s Stress and Anxiety article by Psychology Today. Their 12 Tips to Reduce Your Child’s Stress and Anxiety include:

  1. Encourage your child to face his/her fears, not run away from them.
  2. Tell your child that it is ok to be imperfect.
  3. Focus on the positives.
  4. Schedule relaxing activities.
  5. Model self-care and positive thinking.
  6. Reward your child’s brave behaviours.
  7. Encourage a good sleep hygiene.
  8. Encourage your child to express his/her anxiety.
  9. Help your child to problem solve.
  10. Stay calm.
  11. Practice relaxation exercises with your child.
  12. Never give up!

Anxiety Toys for Children

As I mentioned earlier on, Finlee my little one struggles with anxiety. I work with him daily and encourage him to talk about his anxiety, explore what his brain is thinking etc. Remember it’s better to have their feelings out in the open then floating around in their little brain and so hard for them to comprehend what it means, what to do etc.

There are many different products on the market for anxiety, but the one that has rocked Finlee’s world is the little wuppy® worry puppy.

This amazing worry puppy is designed to help ease children’s worries and to comfort them. It’s simple. Children can talk to their worry puppy about any of their worries. The special feature of the little wuppy® is its red heart. When placed against a child’s heart, the child can send their worries to the puppy so they don’t need to worry about it anymore.

Finlee uses his little wuppy® daily and my husband and I have seen first hand how powerful this simple designed therapy toy has helped Finlee.

Finlee and Me- Kids Anxiety Toys – Little Wuppy Striped

Finlee and Me- Kids Anxiety Toys – Little Wuppy Striped

Keep Strong

Being a parent is not easy, but being a parent with a child with anxiety can be slightly tricky at times. You may feel drained, frustrated with systems etc, but please remember you’re doing a great job.

Does your little one have anxiety?

Comment below with any suggestions you can give other parents.

Love always,



About the Author

Angela Henderson is an author, entrepreneur, blogger, mental health clinician and most importantly a mother. She explores various topics related to parenting/children on her blog and also in her two books 30 Days, 30 Ways for Connecting with Your Child and Healthy Snack Ideas for Kids. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram and her website Finlee and Me.

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4 years ago

Great article. Thanks for the tips. I have started to feel like my 3.5 year old may have some anxiety also. We will be keeping an eye on it and using some of your tips 🙂